STOP YOUR WHINING AND COMPLAINING & BE PART OF THE SOLUTIONS

If you’re like me, I see so many whiners and complainers in our community of so called “ modern educated Hmong”, and they just drive me nuts. Sometimes, I even failed for it and all for the wrong reason on both ends[crazy]. These are the unacceptable behaviors I’m talking about: rudeness, selfishness, thoughtlessness, arrogance, intolerance, dishonesty, whining, complaining and bragging to  be somebody else, etc…just to name a few here. AND - then there’s one specific one that also on this list that truly drives me insane - - - guess it…yep, WHINING/COMPLAINING!. Instead of using their education, knowledge, abilities, and all the things that they have learned, experienced, and trained to find solutions to the mountain of problem facing us and help Hmong to move forward, they use to attack each other. They will find any and all the reason to discredit, put down others who are simply trying to help or do their best to make a difference.

I have read many excellent letters, lengthy emails and Facebook posts and see their exceptional skills and abilities and thought that they have used for all the wrong reasons to [attack others]. I wish that they use their time and energy to advocate for the positive causes that will bring Hmong together to work as a team to build a stronger future for Hmong and better than the one left by our parents and not trying so hard to criticize others just to win the argument. I also wish that I have their writing skills! So I can write 10x better than this crappy blog that you are probably wasting your time reading because of my sketchy English Grammars.

I know and you know that being a whiner and or a complainer will not solve anyone problem or make anyone including yourself happier; rather it’s a chronic problem, and some would even called it an addiction. In fact, while writing this blog, I did some search in Google and found hundreds of articles about this issue, so I know I’m not alone and know that this is a problem that all of us need to take a good look at ourselves and ask tough question about things before we say it to others. One of the article states that “complainer will complain about just anything and everything to anyone who had the misfortune of being stuck to listen and constantly whining. It does matter if it has to do a job, the weather, the pain, girlfriends, wife, grandma, a client, or how busy he/she is at work or school or home. If anything goes wrong, the first thing is putting a negative spin on it and go from there…and then spend the rest of the day or longer complaining about the it”.

The scary thing for you whiners and complainer is that your personal relationships will eventually suffered if you continued to constantly suck out the energy of every room with your complaining. You’ll lose most of your good and most trusted friends, and suffer both personally and professionally. Your career, your life as you know it will eventually stalled out if you constantly repelled the people who you hang out with or even work with. Oh…and your mental, emotional, and even physical health will eventually declined if you don’t to stop complaining and wallowing in negativity every day.

So, STOP WHINING AND COMPLAINING.

Thanks to an article by “Shola Founder of The Positivity Solution”